I would have to stay that the interpersonal trait is my greatest strength. Lately, as I started to read more from this certain book that I won't mention, I've become more sympathetic with people, and I'm seeing certain characteristics I never noticed before. The problem with this is that sometimes, when two people are arguing or fighting over something, I am able to see both of their sides so clearly and emphatically, that I cannot take a stand with either of them.
In other cases, I don't get angry too often. The only person who does get me upset, is me.
When I see a drunk guy being very rude, I feel bad for him. When I see homeless people, my heart breaks. I rarely call anyone crazy, because almost everyone does something for a reason.
But when it comes to understanding people, I think I can definitely say that it is a strong point. I like to listen people as they explain something, or are simply just talking. I look for certain patterns in things they say. I look for how they say certain things. If someone mentions something a few times, it's because they want me to take notice of it. I keep an eye out for facial expressions to tell me a lot. When I tutor in the writing lab, I do this very often. The two seconds on a student's face after I've shown them how to do something usually always tells me whether they understand or not.
Great you are well tuned into your personal strengths, and it is through these strengths that you can help others.
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